My birth- A Boon or A Bane?

 To all the people out there wondering whether my life is a boon or a bane-let me assure you its absolutely a boon and never a bane. When life doesn’t flow according to what you planned it doesn’t mean you are just a useless but its like that’s not the right time for you to shine. Let me walk through the ideologies of proving my facts in.

When a person tried so hard and climbing each ladder up, he/she is not able to taste the  sweetness of success but unfortunately ended up in failure, that doesn’t really mean that you completely failed and you’ll be washed off- that’s definitely not the thing.But actually you are considered as a failure-when you just lose the hope in you and stop trying. You should never lose the ray of hope in you. According to me success varies in different forms. Success is not only in landing in a good paying job in your selected degree . It also might be also a own business you start or even the work for your passion that only yields low income. Actually many people here convert their passions to their careers , work hard and mend more money in it. So its not only about choosing your career according to what you learn and succeeding in it. I am actually not offending it , it depends on people. My only pov is that people looking for success in career will be only in their early 20s , they just fed up when the results are not coming soon. Common dude…There’s a very long way ahead and I am sure we everyone will sort out a way in our own life.

For all the success what we need till the end is “PATIENCE”. Of course yes, but people around us might inflame us badly. Everyone going through this phase will surely have the guilt of wasting parents money and being useless even after trying a lot. Our parents will start berating us for being in home without any job while people around us might go to a job, but only we know the pain-guilt, fear of being useless, fear of future and what not. But let me tell you one thing- assume there are two fruits apple and orange . Apple tastes sweet and Orange tastes a bit sour. We can’t complain apple for being sweet and orange for nor being sweet, that’s the uniqueness of their own. Apple cannot be an orange and orange cannot be an orange. They are actually too good in their own tastes. So that some people prefer apple over orange or vice-versa. Same applies to us, we actually cannot complain a person for have such a character , he/she has the unique character that they posses. He/ she cannot become the other person . One might be a singer or one might be a dancer. A single person cannot have all the best qualities in them. So people excel in their own fields. The thing I am trying to say is that-these are the things we want the one berating us to understand. But unfortunately they will not understand or try to understand what we wanted to speak up. Its better to shut up rather to explain the wall. It should be us who undergo this phase to understand this and never stop trying.

Finally the thing is Each and every person is a boon to the earth with their own purpose . Never ever let go off yourself . Try to stand still whatever happens , There’s nothing going to come that’ll knock off our head. Believe yourself and keep on searching of what you actually need in your life. Be confident in whatever you are doing. You’ll undoubtedly get what you deserve. Hope for the best and pass on with a smile.